psychology - interpersonal attraction
Today while i was reading my psychology chapter 18 for journal.. I found sth really interesting, no wonder my lecturer said we ll like this chapter… haha
Erm, regarding proximity:
"Those who believe in miracles when it comes to matters of the heart may believe that there is a perfect mate chosen for each of us waiting to be discovered somewhere in the world.
But if this is true, the far greater miracle is the frequency with which fate conspires to place this person within walking distance."
(come on, give this a big applause, haha, nice says…)
About Familiarity:
"If you are not beautiful or you find your admiration of someone unreciprocated, be persistent and hang around. Proximity and familiarity are your most powerful weapons"
(Er… this statement actually means that the mere exposure effect, the finding that familiarity all by itself increases liking… hence, we shud always appear in front of someone tat we like so that he/she ll like us too… ahahhahaha)
Still got a lot to go… haven’t finish reading… haha ^o^
(That day my malaysian studies’ lecturer praised me for my voice after i started my presentation with 2 sentences… zadao… then all my classmates clapped for me… haha)
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the guy who gave tat proximity quote is smart.
It is a miracle if u r within walking distance wit ur soul mate.
which means, ur soul mate might just be the ones around u. so be more observant!
about that familiarity i agree also, heard of “out of sight out of mind”? so always be near the one u like.
wei wai ling, indirectly, this is a sign from god. he wants u to be observant, the people around u might just be ur soul mates. he wants u to always be near the one u like, because maybe, that guy likes u too. u nvr know. hehehe.
u kena zadao back by fate lah. fate brought u with this book. now is ur turn to make a decision.
ya… great quote…haha
today found sth again… haha
“Love is more than just strong liking. Most of us know people we like very much but do not love, and some of us have felt passionate attraction for someone we did not particularly like.” <— yeng!!
“If you want to forge a new friendship or relationship, and not merely recycle an old one, you need to start with a new acquantaince who is like no other. And you should be cautious when someone approaches you and says, “You remind me of someone” <— hahahahhahaaha!!!
“Why do people fall in love? The answer is obvious - because love feels good!~” <—walau eh… hahaha
(who want to share my book? haha… this subtopic is damn good for relationship!!! hehe)
I’ve been here ~
lee jia chang…. zadao… hahhaa